i'm 13 and last week i found out that i am pregnant. i'm so scared. i can't tell my parents. i don't know what to do? i'm not with my bf any more... and i don't think he would take it too well if i told him. please someone help me!
Elle
x

hey its okay. he cant make you do anything and dont cry over him when he tells you he doesnt want to be a part of this babies life...if u wana keep it that is... if he tells you he doesnt want to be a part of this babies life tell him it takes two to make a baby. Make good choices. tell your parents. I have a friend who got pregnant at 13 and shes now 15 with a 9 month old daughter. shew loving it.
Ill be thinking of you tonight!
luv ya!
Anna.

first off dont be scraed you have to be strong you cant let your fear cause you to dosomething drastic first off you have to tell him and yall need to talk about and if you dont mind i would like to ask you how old is he? and if yall can sit down and talk about as mature young adults then yall can take it to the next level dont let him make your decision for you you do what you think is right and you have more then one option dont worry about what he wants its not his decision okay the the most importantthing for you to do is tell your mom trust me i now your terrified im only 14 and i cant really even be in the same room as my mother wit out getting scared but tell her you will feel so much better and once you tell her she will be very upset for a long time btu after whill she will get over it and help you through it but first you ahve to wanna help your self okay. plz be strong and keep intouch with me youcan email me at anytime and let me know whats going on im in your same situation but i am 2 months already and i dont now what to do so plz plz be strong and make the right decision which is following your heart

Hi Elle,
Ive just read your story. I know you may think you to young to have a baby and your life is over but its not really a baby can bring you loads of love and joy. When i was your age i was told by my doctor that i would never be able to have kids of my own and that really broke my heart the thoughts of not having a little baby of my own. I am now 18 and i have just had a lovely baby girl called morgan, i was with my b/f/ from the age of 14 and loved him very much and when i found out i was pregnant he wanted me to have an abortion but no way would i ever do that as this might be the only change i will ever have to have my own baby. I got rid of my ex and had my baby and i wpuld never change it for the world, i was scared also when i was pregnant but when you see that little person living inside you ur heart melts and when the day comes you hold them in your arms is the best feelin ever.

There are losda of place when you can get help and support. I think you should tell your parents soon Elle, yea dey might be a little cross but its your life hunny and only you know wot u want but please dont got down the road of an abortion as you will regreat it.

I hope i have helped you im hear to listen if you need.
Nicki

I had my first kid at 17 years old was pregnant at 16. Not an easy thing to go through but once you hold that baby you will know what love is. Babies are alive at whatever stage and should never be aborted. No matter what people may say and try to get you to do including doctors (mine suggested abortion was the best way to go) either keep your child without expectations of the father or your parents for that matter or give your child to a family that will care for it and love it the way you may not. You are very young and you may want to keep your youth but you gave it up when you had sex. Obviously you are scared and it is normal to be but you have to start preparing for what you need to do. I am now 23 years old with 3 kids ( my first died when he was 3months old) and I am happy but it doesn't always work out that way. Find support where you can and be sure it is the right support. Young girls and girlfriends may promise to be there for you but when they find you don't have the time for them they will leave. Trust me on this!!!!

Its ok to be scared its normal.....just pray and ask God for strength and for guidiance and ask him to open doors for you to know what to do...you will be amazed how smooth everything goes....he works in mysterious ways..beileve i know i just found out that i was pregnant yesterday..at first i was scared and hitting my stomach to ya know kill it or whatever but then i stopped and just started asking God to help me and obvisiuosly this was supposed to happen because God wil NOT give you anything you can not handle....i will pray for you and you need to pray also and if you need or have any more questions just write me

~love~
kasey<br><br>Post edited by: Julie, at: 2006/04/21 16:04