[b]Hi all!! are n e of u still with ur childs father??? im not with my childs father he sed he was not ready to b a dad we were 16 when i had my son in feb 2003 n he has not seen him. I just hope im not the only one who the father or child ran off

Jemma

I'm sorry to hear that the child's father ran off and hasn't had any contact with his son. Does he at least pay some child support? I am very lucky to have a very loving and supportive husband who is sticking by my side through my pregnancy. Unfortunately you are not alone. In many cases the father runs off and doesn't accept responsibility for his actions. I admire your strength as a single mother. You must be proud of your son.

hi when i found out that i was pregnant i waited 2 days to tell my bf because i was still shocked. i was in san deigo when i found out it was around 11:25 am when my dr. called me when i finally told my bf he was shocked to. when we talked i knew that the info that he just recieved changed him. a week later after i told him he broke up with me he said that he found someone new because i \&quot;treated him bad\&quot;. everyone that i told said that was a total lie - now he never calls me after he said that we would be friends and that he would call to check up on me but that never happens well i know how exactly how you feel well i am due may 11th 2006 a month before my graduation. bye<br><br>Post edited by: Julie, at: 2005/09/20 00:50

I'm not with my son's father now either; nor have I been with him since the middle of my pregnancy. I'm now with a wonderful man and we are six weeks pregnant. I hope that shines some light on your future!
~Katie~
I don't get any child support either because he is a dead beat.

hi jemma. you're definately not the only one out there who's child's father doesn't play an active role in the parenting. i have a son who's 18 months old and, though his dad is around some of the time, for the most part he spends a lot of his time at school. we both agreed that it would be better for him to finish his college career (and i am working on mine as well). he lives about 2 hours from us, and we rarely ever get to see him. it presents a lot of difficulty, not only for me, but for zephyr (my son) as well. z gets confused a lot about who is father is b/c his dad isn't there a lot. he's even called my little brother daddy b/c he's the dominent male role model in zephyr's life. i hope that your child's father starts to play a part in his daughter/son's life. it will be a rewarding experience, indeed. but i'm sure by now you already know that. good luck!

hi im 16 and im im 4 months pregnant my babys father just realy dont care about his child but people say he will start to care when the baby is born but i dont tihnk so