... i was with a guy for about 2 months.... we were basically living together and around the week of christmas was when my baby was concieved... the guy and i broke up on christmas day.. having no idea about this baby... on dec 27th i was admitted into the hospital... the pregnancy tests came back negative... and the doctors said i had a bacterial infection... i went home that day with antibiotics to take... i remained having pains in my stomach after the antibiotics were over and i went to the doctor on january 14th to ask for pain killers... that was the day that i foundout i was pregnant... my doctor was guessing i was about 2 weeks at the time, and that scared me because i didnt want it to not have been my exs... i was admitted into the hospital 2 hours later... and they found out on top of being FOUR weeks pregnant i had PID... caused by bacterial infections, stds etc. and i was allergic to the medicines to cure it.. i had 12 vials of blood pulled that night and two days later all std tests had came back negative... i was soo relieved to had found out that, and that my baby HAD to have been my boyfriends.. well my ex. My mother had been told by my doctor that i was pregnant.. and after i was released from the hospital on sunday..my mom informed me on monday that i had to get an abortion or get out... this was the woman who i thought of as my bestfriend, and she was betraying me.. im now 6 weeks pregnant... the babys father is completely out of my life. im out of my moms house.. ive been admitted into the hospital a second time... and the pains just continue to get worse... i do not like needles, the hospital scares me... and everytime i turn around... i keep getting more sick, and not in the way of vomitting... im scared. i dont want to kill my baby, but my abortion appointment is on feb 6th... i do not knowwhat to choose or what to think. i cant do this on my own, im only a junior in highschool.. my father and his girlfriend have taken me in... she has a 12 yearold daughter who i want to be able to be a great sister for... please help me, i am scared and confused. this baby is making me very unhealthy... and im losing alll hope..

Hey there, I went through something similar with my first, they told me I had PID but I had NEVER had an STD and I didn't have one at the time, my aunt educated me extremely well on stds so I knew I didn't have it, I ended up being pregnant and they found scarring in my left tube, she was caught in my tube, miraculously she slipped out and planted in my uterus at 7 weeks along and that is what all of my pain was associated with, please go to a different doctor and question them about tubal pregnancy, there is a chance that you could be experiencing that, I am not a doctor so don't take my word you need to be seen...you do not have to have an abortion either, no one can force it on you, they can threaten but they cannot force you, your mom has a legal obligation to care for you, you are a minor right? She cannot kick you out according to law, find a number in your phone book for adult and family services, they can help you get free medical benefits and free legal help....please write back and let me know what you find out...Love Meg

i actually have seen three doctors. and one did an ultra sound and never mentioned anything about it not being okay... i went to the doctor today and she said im just having "pregnancy pains" may i mind you that i could barely walk on monday because of these pains in my pelvic area.... last night i felt really really sickk but hungry at the same time. im scared like, the babys dad informed me today that if i went through with the pregnancy he was taking the baby from me ... and hes using the fact that ive been on depression medications for a year now, against me... he has no job. lives with his parents. has a girlfriend. and wants nothing to do with me... i feel that im doing really well with not stressing over everything thats going on.. but im still torn over that fact that what i should do, is just going to scar me emotionally for the rest of my life...

You don't have to have an abortion, it is completely up to you what you do with your body, future and child. Look at you, your so strong already. Your ex is stupid for leaving you in such a state and your Mum really needs to realise what she is missing out on. I am sorry to say that because she is your bestfriend but I know what it is like to feel like your Mum isn't there. Hang in there girl, I have faith in you! xx

My daughters dad tried pulling the same strings, he wanted me to have an abortion soooo bad but then when I said no he is going to step in and take her from me?? Hello that makes no sense, if you don't kill my baby I am going to take it from you and use anti depressants against you, hello like you couldn't go to the court and use the whole abortion thing against him?? They are empty, pathetic threats that will NEVER come to pass...my daughter is almost 8 now, he has not seen her in over 4 years and just now started paying child support in the last month....don't believe the threats, he is just trying to make you have an abortion and you should listen to missyb, she knows from experience and she doesn't want you to go through what she has....Love Meg

yes! meg is right! you shouldn't have an abortion., it was a gift that you should take good care! time will come your mom will be able to accept your pregnancy., try to fight for your baby! about the stupid father., don't mind him., he was just scaring you., if he intend to get your baby soon., you have all the rights., you are the mother! because here in our country the mother has more rights than the father., and besides., if you give birth., do not put his name on the birth certificate of your baby., use your surname., for him not to have the rights.,