My boyfriend and I were togther for about a year when our relationship ended abrubtyl. This happened because I started liking some other guy and ended up kissing him. I deeply regret my actions with all of my heart, and I now have no feelings whatsoever for this guy. My boyfriend and I relationship was a hard one to end because our feelings for eachother were so intense, so even now, three months after our breakup, one would still think we were togther. Recently though, my boyfriend confessed to me that he really didn't really love me anymore and he didn't see us getting back togther. This crushed me because I am still deeply in love with him. But he also decided that it was the time in our physical relationship to start having sex. Both of us are virgins and I had always dreamed about losing my virginity to him, but I don't know if I could anymore knowing that it wouldn't mean the same to him, knowing that to him it would just be a \"fun time.\" Before breaking up, we always ! planned on getting married also, and this doesn't look as if it's going to happen either. We talked about the consequences of having sex, namely me getting pregnant, and he already established that if I were to get pregnant, then he would learn to love me again, he would never leave me, and he would plan on marrying me. The thing is, if we were to have sex, I would hope with all of my heart that I would become pregnant so we could be togther again. This probably isn't the best way to be looking at a situation, but I love this guy with all of my heart and I know he still has feelings about me, I just couldn't bear to not marry him! But I don't know if I am thinking logically or not! Please advise me on this situation. Thank you very much

I was 15 when I had my first boyfriend. He was my first kiss, and I thought I loved him deeply. Fast-forward eight years. We are now happily married and contemplating our first child. I thought I loved him back then; oh love is so much stronger now. We waited until we were married (at age 21 and 22) to sleep with each other...and that was when I finally realized that we never would have been married, never would have been this happy if we gave in before that. STAY STRONG. Feelings are so intense when you are in high school. I know that. But you CAN resist! And if things are meant to work out-- they will, and will be better than if you had given in. And if things aren't meant to work out, you will find someone more amazing, who cherishes you more than you ever imagined possible, who will be so grateful that you saved yourself for him. Just my own little opinion, but you can save yourself so much heartache by waiting. Babies are miracles. They are miracles whenever they come. But they don't save failing relationships (read all the stories on this site!). Wait just a little longer and you will find out how much happiness can be yours.

No, honey having a baby in order to stay togethere is not logical at all. If he loves you than he should love you whethere or not yall have se or babies

alright this may seem to be the thing to do now..but dont do it...my ex told me the same stuff but its selfish i think ur going to bring up a baby in the world just so you can have your boyfriend back i dont think its fair to the baby...you should wait untill you are ready when u have everything in your life worked out then u should think about having a kid....but not so u can keep your boyfriend cuz in a few years everything might change you two might hate each other and that wouldnt be right for the baby...just think about it with your heart and mind not on how much u wnat him back

Hey my best advice to you is that \"a baby won't hold a man.\" take my advice because i wanted a baby with my boyfriend and we had it, I though he was ganna be with me, but 7 months later he cheating on me, with a girl who wanted to get pregnant by him too but she didn't see in my picture? that a baby won't hold a man?.

HI MY IS TURAJILL CONDRY OF COURSE AND THIS IS MY STORY.OK LOOK I'M 15 NOW AND ME MY SO CALLED BOYFRIEND HAVE BEEN GOING TOGTHER FOR3 YEARS (OFF AND ON). HE SAID HE LOVES ME BUT SOMETIMES ITS LIKE HE DOESN'T CARE AT ALL. WELL THE POINT IS WE PLANNED ON GETTING MARRIED RIGHT WHEN WE GEET OUT OF COLLEGE.WE ALSO PLAN TO HAVE SEX FOR THE FIRST TIME WHEN WE GET MARRIED.BUT HE JUST KEEPS ASKIN WHEN WE ARE GOING TO HAVE SEX ,BUT I'M NOT REALLY READY EVEN THOUGH I TRY TO ACT LIKE IT, FOR HIMOF COURSE. I REALLY LOVE HIM BUT HE DOESN'T KNOW WHEN TO QUITE ASKING THAT QUESTION.I UNDERSTAND THAT YOU CAN GET PREGNANT ON THE FIRST OR SECOND TIME ,SO THIS WEB SITE HAS REALLY TAUGHT ME ALOT OF THIGS I DIDN'T THINK ABOUT AT FIRST.NOW I'M HIGH SCHOOL AND THE QUESTION REMAINS. WHAT AM I GOING TO DO. SHOULD I JUST GO ALONG AND TAKE MY CHANCES OR JUST LISTEN.IF HE KEEPS ASKING, I FEEL LIKE I'M JUST GOING TO EXPLODE.SO WHAT SHOULD I REALLY DO.SHOULD FIND ANOTHER PERSON TO BE WITH OR JUST BE HIS FOLLWER?