Welcome, Guest
Username Password: Remember me

TOPIC: has anyone?

has anyone? 3 years, 7 months ago #20794

  • gurr_1
  • OFFLINE
  • Junior Boarder
  • Posts: 34
  • Karma: 0
has anyone on here been raped by ur boyfriend and then he thinks he has done nothin wrong?
well that happened to me and im still with him because im afraid of what he will do if i break up with him do guys have any advice on how to break up with him?

Re:has anyone? 3 years, 7 months ago #20827

  • nadza
  • OFFLINE
  • Expert Boarder
  • Posts: 158
  • Karma: 1
hey swty... agh i hate man who think women are their property its jus plain disgustin... umm i dunno how u gonna break up wit him but maybe u should get a restraining order against him... are u preg?

Re:has anyone? 3 years, 7 months ago #20831

  • MissKirsty
  • OFFLINE
  • Platinum Boarder
  • Posts: 465
  • Karma: 0
that must have been and still be hard.
If you are afraid of him talk to someone you trust (an adult), like your Mom or something, and ask them to help you to be safe from him. Let us know how it goes!

Re:has anyone? 3 years, 7 months ago #20849

  • gurr_1
  • OFFLINE
  • Junior Boarder
  • Posts: 34
  • Karma: 0
yeah im 19weeks and a day

Re:has anyone? 3 years, 7 months ago #20851

  • Autumn
  • OFFLINE
  • Platinum Boarder
  • Posts: 323
  • Karma: 1
Firstly, let me say how sorry I am that this happened to you. It's so sick to see how so many men think that women are their property and that they're below them.

Secondly, if you're concerned for your safety, you can check with the police if you are able to file a temporary restraining order for now. If he makes threats in the future, make it permanent. If you don't think that he'll harm you, then just be straight up with him and tell him that you don't want to be used and that you deserve better... because you do!

Re:has anyone? 3 years, 7 months ago #20852

  • Autumn
  • OFFLINE
  • Platinum Boarder
  • Posts: 323
  • Karma: 1
Okay... I didn't read that you were pregnant. If you're concerned for your safety or the child's safety, then OF COURSE you have all rights to file a permanent restraining order! Call a local law school for free law advice, or call the police and inform them of the situation- you don't have to give out personal information, they'll tell you what you should do.
Time to create page: 0.22 seconds

Get 24 hour live support!

Need Help NOW?

Check out our new StandUpGirl Podcast page!