Well, this is actually my 4th son! I went through this with my second, but they put my on BR and gave me shots to stop contractions and I carried him to term. He is 6 now.
Last year, my water broke at 24 weeks. I was in hospital until 28 weeks when I gave birth to a beautiful boy (Levi) weighing 2lbs 7 oz. He was doing awesome for the first week in the NICU, but then he got a terrible infection and didn't make it. He was born 9-2-07 and died 9-11-07.
Now, Isaiah is coming. He is supposed to be a planned C-section on Sept 9, but I think he will probably come early.
I only worked 20-25 hours/week but the DR put me on bedrest and it really has helped. I am probably up more than I should be, but it still has helped! Water does seem to help as well. I went for my sono yesterday and I was still at 1 cm 60% effaced. If she pushed on my tummy, I would efface more and didn't recover very fast so that is why bedrest is important! I had a sono and Isaiah is a whopping 4 lbs!!! That is twice the size of Levi already! She said if I went full term it would be a 9 lb baby. I have already had my steriod shots to mature baby's lungs just in case he comes early...at this weight already I think he will do okay! I did ASK for the steriod shots. I wanted some piece of mind and the Dr didn't argue. I don't know if you have had them before ( I had them with my last 3) They come in 2 doses (24 hours apart) and the shot goes in your upper butt or hip area. They burn, but they are soooooo worth it! I am convinced Levi didn't have to be on the ventilator but for a couple hours because of those shots! They told me he wouldn't even cry, but he came out screaming!!
Hang in there...every week they gain 1/2 lb and every day is important! If you make it to 32 it would be awesome and at 34 weeks, they baby would probably not have to stay in the NICU!!! My Dr will let me off of bedrest at 34 weeks so you are so close! Stay in touch, sounds like we are in similar positions!