Hey, I'm sorry that your in that situation, I agree with the girls above, the only thing I have to add is that it's probly better to deal with it before the baby gets here and get any drama out of the way ( without stressing yourself out too much) before the baby is born, because you don't want a newborn and all of this on your hands. When it's born you and your boyfreind w ant to be able to enjoy your time with it. Any issues are between your boyfreind and her, so tell your bf to man up and have an adult conversation with her. If he's telling the truth, I'd imagine that he'd do what he could to make it right for you and his baby.