You can do it! My house if full of so called \"mistakes\" and if the people that carried us had abortions we all would not be in this family. My bf was not a planned child,I myself was given up for adoption and 2 of my 3 children were surpises. I would not have this wonderful family if the powers that be would have said hey wait until you are ready. You can do what ever you put your mind to. If adoption is right for you there are hundreds of loving families out there that would be complete if you made thier wishes and payers come true. Good luck to you in any decision you make.