I am 15 and i just found out that i am pregnant just 2 weeks ago I got back from the womens pregnancy center here in Ocala, Fl and my mom was sitting on the couch looking out the window when i came through the door she already knew because the way i looked in my car... i cried and cried i have no idea what i am going to do with a baby my 19 year old sister just now had a baby boy on Feb 15 and i found out only 2 days later that i was pregnant actuallly it was the day she and the baby came home from the hospital i told the father of the baby and he asked me 3 times in like 5 minutes to get an abortion and i continueously told him NO i would never enen consider that i was capable to get pregnant i have to be capable to take care of my baby no my due date is October 19 and i am so scared and stressed its crazy i would have never thought i would be pregnant this sool i ahve no idea what i am going to do with a baby im too young but i look at it like i wasnt to yound to get in this position so now i jus thave to deal with it and figure out a way to make a life good enough for me and my baby even if i ahve to do it myself because needless to say the father most likely wont come around... i wannt to thank you for opening this website it is really helping me out THANK YOU.....Love Trina

hey girl,
I know this is extremely frustrating, scary and overwhelming all at the same time. Know this though-you can get through this, you can be an awesome mom and you and your baby can have a wonderful future together. God doesn't make mistakes....
My baby will be nine next week-I was 15 when I had her and wouldn't change it for the world. I will not tell you that being pregnant as a teen will be easy-it will shape the rest of your life, build your character and force you to press on towards your goals when all seems lost!
Hang in there! Don't hesitate to ask for help from those of us who have been there!

Hey hon...I know EXACTLY how you feel. I got pregnant at 16 and my father asked me to have an abortion. My mother was really supportive thank goodness. Abortion never entered my mind. My daughter is now going to be 14 this year, and every time I look at her I am so thankful I didnt. I dropped out of school, but went back and got my GED and am now going to community college getting a nursing degree. I hope you mom is working with you on this. Family is a great sense of support. As far as the father, if he keeps asking you to get an abortion tell him he can either be part of your and the babies life or not. If he really cares about you he'll stay. If not your better off, as much as you probably dont believe it. I am married now and have a son, and my husband treats my kids like they were his own.If you EVER need anyone to talk to you can email me at This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it . Good luck hun!

hey girl! omg i can relate to you soo much!!! its krazy kuz first of all my names katrina but everyone calls me trina and when i first THOUGHT i was pregnant i was only 15 too and when i told the guy he too tried to pressure me into having an abortion.then,after he got it into his thick mente (head) that that wasnt gonna happen he throws some b.s in my face telling me that he hasnt been truthful 2 begin with,that he had some other girl 2 months pregnant with his baby.girl...i couldnt handle that! i just hung up on him and we didnt talk for 2 or 3 whole months.but then i seen him again and we started \"talking\" again and we started messing around like we used to and now i ended up RIGHT WHERE I STARTED FROM i think im pregnant again but im afraid to tell him b kuz i dont want him to trip on me and whoo whee!!! if i am i know for a fact! that i would dissappoint soo many ppl in my family! bkuz first of all my family is REALLY close and you cant tell one adult anything without everyone knowing by the end of the day so they all think im a virgin and just recently my younger cousin ran away and told her dad when she got back that shes been having sex and that was just a surprise to EVERYONE xcept 4 me bkuz i already knew bkuz us younger kids are real close and tell eachother everything but yea the adults think im a virgin and to bust out with me being pregnant will shock and hurt soo many ppl! i know i should have been honost to begin with but i lost my virginity at a young age i was only 13 and have been having sex since. and now im 16 but yea i just wanted to say keep ya head up gurly and stay strong! never depend on a guy for support bkuz most of them dont know how to give it. k lubbinz n respeckz ya girly ~*~*~*sWeEtZ*~*~*~

girl me and u are pretty much goin through the same thing then
i found out that i was, just about a week ago and im 15 too i didnt kno what i was gonna do, how i was gonna tell my mom, if the father was gonna be there, if i was gonna be able to support it. but finally i told my mom she was pissed but i kno shes there for me we talked it over and i made her understand that i did this, it was my responsibility, she finally accepted it and now im fine the best advice to give u is exactly what others are telling me......keep ur head up, be strong, accept what u did......u should really look at this as a blessing its kool u kno i already picked out a name if its a girl i want it to be carmen renee' hopefully the daddy of ur baby will come around cause mine didnt so good luck to u
a friend wrote a note to me and im gonna let u read it lets just say it made me cry and stronger (that sounds korny) but hopefully it will work for u to and help u out
~GODS SPECIAL GIFT~
every female is scared of being a bad mom.
every girl feels she will fail her child.
but when u find out for sure, and u can feel that little child inside u
you become so protective
you want nothing to hurt that unborn baby
everything happens for a reason
GOD probably put that child in you to show you how to care and love it

well i hope that helps and if u need anybody to talk to at all dont be afraid to talk to me ok
*always*
virginia

Hello my friend:


Have your baby. Keep your head up and do whats best for you. There are so many agencies out there that will help you through and after your pregnancy. They also help you with your education and what ever else you want to do in life. I have many friends who have had children at your age and have really made it. Also continue to ask god for stenght and guidance. Also if you ever decide to not keep your child there are so many families that would love to adopt.....Keep the faith.