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Family?! 4 years, 11 months ago #15160

  • lilredheed
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I am 29 weeks pregnant with my first lil one and life seems pretty good! Me and my boyfreind have not been together long before i got pregnant but id already met his mam and been invited to family partys and everything so i thought i had been welcome.
So when i found out i was pregnant and told them they all seemed really happy but suddenly eveything has seemed to of changed.

My boyfreind admitted to me that his mam is having a party but i'm not ment to know about it. All the females in his family are going but im not getting an invite. Instead his EX GIRLFRIEND that he was with way before he met me has been invited so now im feeling really low. It seems that i havent been accepted into his family but she is still very much apart of it even after all these years. So if they arent accepting me are they going to accept my baby?

She has no ties to his family! I have there own blood growing inside my tummy. I don't know what i can do to make them want me there. I was feeling really lonely before but now its ridiculous, i feel like i have no one.

Re:Family?! 4 years, 11 months ago #15185

aw darling thats not very nice at all!
maybe you are invited because you and your boyfriend are together and having a child so she must think that maybe you would automatically come, i dunno. Just trying to find something, cause that may be the answer.
If they seemed happy about it then, then they should still be happy about it now. Dont be depressed over it hun, it will be okay.
If not, talk to your boyfriends mum about it, sit her down and ask her whats going on. It may be confronting BUT its what you need to do. And also confront her about your boyfriends EX girlfriend. That isnt very nice to invite her. Its kinda mean.
i hope everything is okay
xx

Re:Family?! 4 years, 11 months ago #15191

ur situation is kinda difficult...all i can offer right now is just be patient maybe with time they will turn around....

Re:Family?! 4 years, 11 months ago #15193

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hey hon you really need to tell your bf how you feel about this.n maybe even talk stight up with his mom cause maybe just maybe you will marry her son one day n than whats going to go on.hes not still tyed to his x i hope friends whatever my hubby was friends with his x for a while i ended that i told him me n your family or her n he made his choice i feel an x is an x for a reason def talk to her or have your bf if you dont feel comf. tell her everything youve said here. get it off your chest maybe you still wont be invited which is wrong n i would ask why not but trust me you will so much better telling them how you feel n ask them if they are going to accapet your baby cause its also her sons baby.

Re:Family?! 4 years, 11 months ago #15196

If they treat you like that then you never know. My own family did that to me so I kind of know where your coming from, but you still have your boyfriend. Ask him to spend time with you just because he loves you.

Re:Family?! 4 years, 11 months ago #15251

Hi, im kinda going through this in a different way.my partners been told not asked to be best man of his mates wedding.he is getting partnered up with this chick that is in love with him.i know its his baest mate but wat im suppose to sit there by myself around people i dnt know while my bf is danicing eating,having photos ect with this other chick!!!this makes me so angry people can be so inconciderate!!!...your bf shudnt go n if they say he must be there he should say \"she(refering to you) is my girlfriend,if she cant come then sorry neither can i\"this is wat i expect my bf to do but say ill still come but not be part of the bridal party..i hope things work out for you,just tell him how you feel,even better put it on his parents,ask what is there problem..good luck with this,hope to hear back from you...daniella
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