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how sick is this 5 years, 1 month ago #13697

I just found out 2day that a girl at my cousins school is pregnant The girl is only 12 and the baby is due before her 13th birthday. Apparently her and her boyfriend planed it all out.

Even more wrong, I read on the net that not too long ago there was a girl in the UK who got pregnant at 10. She had started drinking and smoking at 9 and her mom was \"proud that she was keeping her baby\" even tho she was a baby herself and the guy who got her pregnant didn't care about it . While pregnant at 30 weeks she still smoked 20 cigarets a day because she didn't know it effects the baby

How could a mother let that happen?? I mean I know she didn't make her daughter pregnant but its still the mothers fault she was pregnant. I mean she must have known that her 9yr old was smoking and getting drunk all the time as well has having a 15yr old boyfriend or at least hanging out with dodgy older guys and if she didn't well then it shows how much she looked after her kid. People like that shouldn't be parents, I'm surprised they didn't take the little girl away or even arrest the guy who made her pregnant.

Anyone else know of any other kids(not teens) who were or are pregnant?

Re:how sick is this 5 years, 1 month ago #13775

  • Meg11
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I am thankful that you have been given eyes to see how \"wrong\" it is for your girls to end up in these situations...at the same time we need to be careful not to judge and condemn these people... we need to stand up for what is right and we need to say what is wrong is wrong..but God knows the heart of each person and He is to judge not us.... I hope you continue to seek out these stories and share them so that people will have their eyes opened but I also hope that you will see how ugly sin is and start praying for these people.... you know that God sees every sin on the same level??? a tiny little white lie is as ugly as the mother of the 10yr old who allowed her daughter to be in that situation.... thinking a mean judgemental thought about the 12 yr old and her boyfriend is equal to murder in Gods eyes....I am not just saying this becuase I feel like it these words are in the bible....If you think a hatefull thought towards your brethren then it is as bad as murder...and looking at someone with lust in your heart is as guilty as adultry.... I think you should keep up the \"preaching\" to the young girls out there that these things are wrong but remember that you are not innocent either and I am sure there is plenty for God to judge in your heart as well as mine....if you want to know more about why I feel the way I do visit my profile and sign my guestbook and I'll get back to you....Meg

Re:how sick is this 5 years, 1 month ago #13776

And that's true?Like,it definitly isn't an urban legend?That's crazy.A baby at 10...wow.
Also,what sort of weird 15 year old would go out with a 9 year old?Unless she looked older and told him she was like 13.You can;t tell with some kids these days

Re:how sick is this 5 years, 1 month ago #13785

That is quite sick. I cannot believe that a person could smoke that much while they know that it is harming the baby! It is quite ridiculous, our generation. (haha, I sound like an old person right there. =] ) But I do believe that a 9 year old was pregnant...in fact there was a 5 year old in Peru who was pregnant and gave birth. The child was a result of incest/rape and it was raised as if he was a brother to the little girl, instead of her son.

It's so sad how young kids have sex and get pregnant...

Re:how sick is this 5 years, 1 month ago #13797

Of course, it's horrible that this happened for many reasons, not the least of which is the fact that mom had her head in the sand or just didn't care. I'd guess this girl had a lot of issues that led to her behavior. Keep in mind though that many folks feel equally disgusted with girls getting pregnant at 14, 15, 16, or even 17. It's because once you've grown up, especially if you've gone down that path yourself, you know that she must've been looking for something- an escape, love, fun, or whatever, and you know the struggle that's ahead for her. The guy should definitely have some consequences for his part. We should commend her desire to keep her baby if it's because she wants to do what's right, but we can only pray that it's actually what's best. And it doesn't sound like she's had a strong role model for being a mom.

Re:how sick is this 5 years, 1 month ago #13800

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Not bein funny bu uv asked people to reply who arnt ''teens'' this site is for teen mums an people who need upport, u are basing ur argument on 1 case, an u even got the fact wrong the girl was 12 years old when she was pregnant cz it was in magazines. . . . . . . .I understand wot u are tryin 2 say bu plz do it on another site, this sit is to support those TEENS who are pregnant an need help, not to be slanderd by people like you. I have seen an spoken to poepl who such big opionions like u do an slag off those mums who do look after there children an are good mums. Please if u wanna be nasty bout yuong mums go sumwhere else please
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