OF THESE YOUNG GIRLS TRYING TO GET PREGNANT ON PURPOSE?! DO U NOT KNOW WHAT U ARE GIVING UP?? HAVING A BABY COMPLICATES UR RELATIONSHIP AND A BABY NEVER HAS NOR EVER WILL KEEP A GUY. U ARE JUST MAKING UR LIFE HARDER FOR URSELF. I LOVE MY DAUGHTER BUT I MISS GOING OUT AND STUFF. SO HOW DO U THINK U GIRLS WHO ARE 13 14 15 WILL FEEL WHEN I MISS THESE THINGS AT ALMOST 19 YEARS OLD?? THATS ALL IM GONNA SAY ABOUT THAT BECUZ I KNOW NONE OF U WILL EVER LISTEN TO ANY ADVICE FROM SOMEONE WHO KNOWS. UR BOUND N DETERMINED TO MAKE THINGS MORE DIFFICULT FOR URSELVES. YA BABIES ARE CUTE BUT THEY ARE ALOT OF WORK. AND DONT FORGET THAT THEY ARENT BABIES FOR VERY LONG!!

ALSO- IAM SO TIRED OF GIRLS ON HERE PRETENDING TO BE PREGGO OR TRYING TO GET ATTENTION. ALL OF U FAKES ARE USING A GOOD AND HELPFUL SUPPORT NETWORK FOR THE WRONG REASONS AND U ARE ABUSING IT!!

DOES ANYONE FEEL ME ON THIS? LOL

I am very tired of FAKES...I can spot them a mile away.....this site should be a safety net for those who are hurt and confused and for those who REALLY need the encouragement....STAND UP GIRL that is the name of the site.....remember that when you dont listen to the advice you are asking for...so many girls say they need help and they dont know what to do....well when you are given counsel you get offended and you have a bad attitude and you insist on doing it your own way...STAND UP GIRL quit sleeping around, quit partying, quit letting some guy cheat on you or beat you, start listening to your parents, quit lying, quit trying to be someone else, quit taking time from people who care for those that hurt if you are not going to listen, STAND UP GIRL that is th ename of this site and if you dont want to stand up then why are you here.....I know that it takes time to change and adjust when you have kids...I am not talking to those who are in a touch season and are in the process I am talking to those who always complain and who never listen....I am ready to start seeing proof...if you are pregnant put up your ultrasounds and show your face with your belly, My heart breaks for those who struggle but it angers me that so many yourng girls claim to be or are trying to be pregnant......I come on this site to reach out to those in need not to entertain the boredom of rebelious little girls,,,,,,,Meg

Okay, i agree that some people fake it for attention.. but they dont really hurt anyone.. but yes it is wrong..
but when it comes to having a child at a young age purposly.. maybe you look at it as robbing you of doing things you wanted too.. but for me.. it was the best change i could ever have! i still do things.. and i got pregnant at 14.. and now almost 17... yeah its hard but its exactly what i wanted! so yeah alot of people have kids and realize what its really about.. and that its not what they expected.. but maybe for some girls thats all they need.. you being a young parent should know it dosnt trash your life... maybe not being able to do everything you want is what keeps you a good person (NOT nessisarilly) but think about it.. no child.. maybe you'd be in jail for something stupid you did.. my son is the best thing ever.. and if he had come a year later, i dont know what i would have done.. if a young girl wants to get pregnant.. i know it will be hard for them.. and they will suffer some sort of hardship.. but i would suport them from the start to the end! maybe not the best option for them.. but its their choice, thier body, and afterwards, it is their responsiblity.. and i beleive young girls have every right to have a child prepared or not, cause either they give a family a child they dreamed of.. or they get a reality check and become a mother.. not sure if i made my point.. but i dont agree much at all with you. but i can see your point!

Im 31 1/2 weeks pregnant and absolutely terrified. Its a huge responsibility. I wish i had not become pregnant again. To some - Having a baby might sound good but when you are faced with the reality of parenthood, its terrifying. All i can say is make sure you are prepared and that its what you really want. If you do become pregnant, my best wishes for you.

yh i agree with the anoyin fakes. . . . .go ashmo!!!!! lol, luff luff xxxx

I couldn't agree more with what most of you have said. I mainly lurk around here but I run a site for young parents (oneyoungparent.com) and there are fakes and wanna-bes everywhere. Be a kid, stop trying to get attention. It does hurt people when you fake because people get attached to a person (even online) and betrayal is very hurtful. As for purposely getting pregnant... all that I have to say is WAIT! Whoever said that if a 14 year old wants to get pregnant let her, I have to question where your advice is coming from? It isn't fair to that girl's child, to her family, to her boyfriend. Trying to get pregnant as a teenager is self-destructive behaviour, and is a sign of an emotional disturbance or imbalance. I refuse to support a will to get pregnant before a person can support that child emotionally, financially, and spiritually. A child is more than a baby. God entrusts us with his children to raise them and teach them. If we haven't learned all that we need, how are we to teach these children? I had my first child at 16. I know that it is hard and rewarding. I would not have chosen it. I find it disturbing that a teen/preteen can plan a pregnancy and have no guilt that the child created goes without, and that they have to rely on either family or welfare just for basic food and shelter. And the part that I find the most appalling is that many who are trying to become pregnant refuse to even talk to their doctors about their bodies, or to see the doctor when the pregnancy occurs.
Stand up girl is a website for those pregnant and in tough situations to stand up for what they believe in and receive support in their decisions. Not a place to discuss TTC at 13, or to come play pretend. It is unfortunate that this site has been around for so many years, (I began reading Dear Becky, before my oldest son was a twinkle in my eye), and sadly it has been reduced to a haven for fakers and wanna-be's.