Im 17 years old and am due to have triplets in October but am scared. These babies would not be on the way had i not been raped and now im left with this. The guy is in jail but i dont believe in abortion so i have to carry them. Im a cheerleader and dont know anything about pregnancy or being a mother. Id ask my mom but she died when i was 12 and my dad when i was 4. Its just me and my sister who isnt a mom.please help me.

Hey Im so sorry that you are going through such big things at your age. I lost my mom when I was 19 (now 25) and I wish I could talk to her sometimes. I actually pretend sometimes even though I know she cant hear me....I just forget what it feels like to call someone mom. So I know I visited your page and commented on your \"tripple blessing\" I didnt realize you had been raped. Thank you for choosing to keep your babies. You are in the right place and I know that there are many ladies on here that would love to mother you I am not that much older and I know that I could not replace your mom but I would love to encourage you as a mother (I have 2 and 1 step) I know that Jesus loves you and He knows your hurt so please let Him into your heart and allow Him to guide your every move. He has helped me so much. When I read my bible I find so many things to live out in parenthood. And alot of the ways I parent my children are inspired by Gods word rather than how I was raised. Not having birth parents around to give advice can be hard but we do have an instruction manuel....the bible. I was a single mom for 4 1/2 years and I just got married in November. Children can be difficult and life will always be tough whether you have kids or not so keep your head up and KNOW that God will provide for you and He will see you through this and He will bring women into your life and a husband one day to help you be the mom He has created you to be. It takes someone with alot of love to raise tripplets. So embrace motherhood and use this experience to encourage others to not give up.......Love and Prayers ....Meg

hi...i'm so srry to hear that u were raped...it's good that he's in jail though. omg triplets?!...that's got to be hard, i'm due with my lite oy June 8th and i think it's hard enought o be having only one!....my mom died when i was 14, i'm 17 i turn 18 in april though..althoughi do have my husband's mom to help, we got married Feb 2nd 2007, the day after we found out we are having a boy....are you ging to keep the babies or give the up? just wondering...

hey,
im going to keep the babies but im not sure how ill do this haha. We had a HUGE scare when i fainted at cheerleading while visiting and spent from 9:00 pm the 11 to 6:30 the 13 in the hospital. Were all ok but it scared every1

No parents atall to care but it may be for the best but i miss them so much

All I can say is: \"Good Luck...\"

I was wondering... is the father of the babies... going to have any part in their life? How are you doing?

Nicki

sorry to hear about you being raped.i know what thats like. are you excited to be having the triplets? i am only 12 weeks but omg im nervous.