Me n my boyfriend argue alot, bu just recenlty he has started to hit me an call me real nasty names.
Today was different, we was arguin an he got up an hit me across the face and arm, he dragged me around and klicked me in the leg, Im 18 weeks pregnant and showing.
We used to physically fight before i was pregnant bu it all calmed down when i beacame pregnant.
Im scared hes going bak into his old ways, so i broken up with him on the spot, Im scared of bein a single mum bu its not jus for my saftey but for my daughter or son to. I dont no what 2 tell my parents they think or relationship is perfect an we are really happy lol what a joke. Im scared an alone now I never wanted 2 b a single mom bu now its happend an i dont no what 2 do . . . xxxxx love stephanie Bytheway xxx

By the sound of things, you need to get out of that situation. Not only for you (because it is not healthy) but also for your unborn baby. I know that the thought of single parenting is not appealing (i will be a single mum) but there is alot of help out there these days. I would suggest 'fessing up to your family and addmitting all is not perfect and they may be able to help you. They can help if they dont know anything is wrong. Best of luck.
Kylie

Wow. I can relate to this story. It makes me feel as if I wrote this story, but in a different way. I really feel for you girl, and if I could give you any advice* Please****** get out of the relationship. It was the *BEST* thing I ever did. Please check out my web site, I think under the \"Abuse\" you'll find many different resources... I wish you the best of luck. Please get out of the relationship before he dangers the child and/or yourself...

Nicki

hey maybe u should tell ur parents wot has been going on, or a little bit so that they can kinda understand wots been going on in ur life for however long. And i dont know if ur the type of person to go bak when he says the right words but if u are then ur parents will be able to help u stay away from him. U honestly made the right decision although it might be hard to c rite now but u wont b alone forever, ul have ur baby soon and he or she will be the best company u can have =) goodluck.

im sry to here that. But you need to get out of this situation. you have someone else to take care off now not only do you have to protect yousrelf you need to protect you baby. please get out of this relationship beofore it gets worst. me and my bf argue alot but he never hits me. who knows how bad i would snap out if that would happen

it is a scary thought to become a single mom - but many people do it, and make it work BETTER than if there were 2 parents. imagine if you did stay with him and you AND your baby were in this violence??

theres NO WAY your boyfriend should be hitting you and it was a very good choice to finsih it. not many people are strong enough to do that.

you know deep down it'll be fine. hard, but it will work out, and it would have been harder with someone like that.

you'll have to explain to your parents, you might not want them to hate him or anything like that, but he ruined that, not you. they will support you 100% with your desicion to finish it.

much love good luck be strong xxx