i cant say ive been in a simular situation. when i found out that i was pregnate i just turned 17. i was going into my junior year in high school and my mother flipped i didnt have a job and nor did the father. he still doesnt and i am just getting by. but in my opion i believe it is better to fight for something to give up. but i is your choice but id say go with what you want and what you want for your baby.