I need some advice! I am pregnant, but I dont know if it is my husbands or his brothers. I know that sounds bad, but there is a long story behind it. My husband wants me to have an abortion, but I dont beleive in abortion, its just not for me. He said that if I keep the baby he will leave me, but I already have 3 other kids and cant picture getting rid of this one. Can someone please help me?

it doesnt sound like u want that abortion...so dont have it, even if ur husband wont stay with u if u keep the baby, whos sayin ull want to stay with him after he has pressured u into something that big! my friend was pressured into having an abortion by her boyfriend, only to split up with him herself after a week or so cos of what he made her do.

that way ud end up losing both.

i dont want to give u false hope, but maybe when the babies born or u find out ur due date (n maybe conception date) n the baby turns out to be ur husbands, maybe he'll want to be there.

doesnt he want the baby at all? or wud he be ok with it if it was his? ... just wondering ...

good luck xx

you have to do what is right for you, if u have an abortion becoz someone else wanted you 2 thn u will hate yourself so much more. u have to make the right decision for u. u have to look inside your self and do what you think is best for u and your children. hope this helps a little.

Hey girl! My sister went through the same thing, She was soo scared that he would leave her, But she was already pretty far.. Long story short she had to go to a Different State to get an abortion, and she said it was the worse thing she could have done! I know she tells me all the time that if she couldve done it over she would have kept her baby because she thinks about what she did Every single day! I hope that mey have helped u a little

Hi i had an abortion friday because its what my family and boyfriend wanted me to do. I have regretted it since friday i have been in tears every single day thinking to myself why have i done it i know that i could have brought that baby up and i just went along with what everybody else said i wish i hadnt i have now killed my little baby because other people told me to. Dont let anybody pressure you into what you dont want to do because i did and i know i will regret it for the rest of my life.

YOU are the only one worth changing your life for.

Not once did you mention what YOU wanted.

Think about what you want... and forget about the men involved. When you've figured out where you stand. It will make you stronger to deal with whatever happens next.