I just wanted to leave a message to anyone who just found out their pregnant, has a child, or has been pregnant for a while. i got pregnant at 14, had my child a little over a month after i turned 15, thought i wouldnt make it through labor... but realized that i could, and then thought i couldnt make it through parenting... i was wrong... its been hard, and i wanted to just give up so many times... during all of it.. but it was worth it... and the best thing i beleive i've ever done. being a mom is the best job in the world.. yes its hard... there will be times you want to just stop but you know you cant, and you dont... i just want to say that weather your in a pregnancy that you didnt want, did want, dont have any suport over, it dosnt matter.. you are your own person, no matter what others say about you or your abilities... you can do it. im in school, have a job, and my 16 month old. lots of people put me down and said i'd never be able to do it... but i couldnt imagine if i had given him up for adoption.. that is the answer for some.. but certainly not me i created this child, and im going to be the best mother i can for this child ... i almost gave my child up to my parents at one point... but then a friend that i had only met online really insipred me to not give up, its the easy way out for you, but the hard way out for your child. i dont know if i made a diffrence to anyone.. but you really can do it, no matter what, its your body, your child, but.. it is not just YOUR future, it is your childs future too... and its up to you to make his or her future good.
