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19 Years Old And Preg?? So Scared 2 years, 2 months ago #25784

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I am 19 years old. Full time college student and worker. My boyfriend is 19 and also full time in both college and school. We are in love but only have been together 7 months. We havent ben trying, we have been protected, we wouldnt want kids untill we were married, if we got married. However after having a dream i was prego, i realized that i have missed y per by over a week. A few days later i got some light bleeding but nothing like a normal period. I didnt get cramps or anything, just a little red pee. I constantly am tired today i slept 14 hours... I plan on taking a test after this ""Period"" is over because i know many many women have regular periods while prego and this is barely a period at all. Im scared and i dont know what to do. i dont even know what to tell him or if i hould tell him. i dont know if i want it. I know i cant take care of it, but the thought of a baby me & the lve of my life made makes me weak at the knees thinking of loseing it. Really i have never been more lost. can someone help me out =/

Re:19 Years Old And Preg?? So Scared 2 years, 2 months ago #25785

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I'm so sorry you are going through a stressed out time....I'm only fifteen and I've never had sex so I've never been pregnant, but I'd think it'd be better to tell your boyfriend so you have one less thing to stress about. And if he's supportive, that could be a major plus and stress reliever as well. You shouldn't go through this alone. Tell him, take a test, and see if you're pregnant and then go from there. You'll get through this...

Re: 19 Years Old And Preg?? So Scared 2 years, 2 months ago #25786

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Hi hun, i know what you mean alot of women do still bleed while pregnant, my friend tammy bleed for 2 weeks while she was pregnant, and yes you can get pregnant while protected, i know a girl who had her tubs tied and still fell pregnant. i would deffinantaly take a test iv found the best pregnant test is the one's you get from your local doctor, it is scary butsometimes it can be the best thing ever. if you want to tell your bf just let him know whats happening to you but you dont know if you are for sure , if you need someone to talk to iam here , Goodluck . From Jess.

Re: 19 Years Old And Preg?? So Scared 2 years, 2 months ago #25787

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hi SkyGirl. Did you take a pregnancy test yet? It's hard to be wondering and worrying. I'd like to say don't worry but I know how it is. Please know that even if you couldn't raise a child yet, there is always adoption. I will be thinking positive for you. There is a hotline you can call in the US: 1-800-672-2296. It is cool you had a dream about it though.

Re:19 Years Old And Preg?? So Scared 2 years, 2 months ago #25788

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I think you should take a pregnancy test now to comfirm ur thoughts of being pregnant

Re: 19 Years Old And Preg?? So Scared 2 years, 1 month ago #25794

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I can imagine your fear right now. I'm married and when I found out I was pregnant it was a huge shock. My husband and I were not ready, were not planning on having a baby anytime soon, I was full time in school and working full time. But we knew that it was a perfect gift. Sometimes we make plans but they're not always the right ones for our life. If you want to talk please feel free to ask any questions you'd like!
Blessings!
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