I don't know what to do, this would be my 5th abortion in 5yrs!! We are so fertile! He says now isn't a good time. But I don't want to have another abortion!! He'll never understand what it feels like to have someone growing in your body every day. I want to keep it, but I don't have health insurance right now and I'm also in between jobs!!! AGAGHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Don't let him decide for you! It doesn't matter if now is not a good time. You can overcome the odds!

Babies arn't something you shun away because it's not a good time. I am not for or against abortion but in your case I think it's time to take some responsibility for your actions. You and your bf created this child now be the adults you were being when you had sex. You can be a good mom that provides for her child you just have to give yourself the chance. I myself had an abortion and was scared that I would not be able to have more kids and you are really playing with those odds. Start using protection if you don't want to continue going thru this. I really do wish you the best of luck no matter what you decide to do. Jessica

Its not the babies fault it wasn't conceived at an appropriate time. And do not let someone else make a decision that huge for you. And abortions are very risky. I know someone who has had four abortions and she cant have kids anymore because of it. Having that many abortions is sad, but whats even more sad is that shes only seventeen. Being infertile is a very likely consequence. Then its not going to matter if the time is "appropriate" or not. He wont ever be able to have a baby with you. I agree with jessey223. Take responsibility. Abortion is not a form of birth control. If you guys were ready for sex then you were ready for a baby. Everyone knows having sex can easily lead to having a baby. I hope i dont sound rude, but i really believe that child deserves to have a life. I hope you do the right thing. Good luck.

hei..
wow.. look girl, it is YOUR body, and its YOU where the new life is growing..and it is growing fast...you should go on the internet and look up how your BABY looks right now..
gosh, don't let the boy make decisions of whom YOU will suffer the moste..
you are in a bad situation, but in the end everything settles up...
there are ups and downs in life, and after every down there comes an up...
please let YOUR BABY live.. let him see the sky,the sun,let him decide what will be his favourite flavour of icecream..
and let him be your baby.
keep us updated on what you decide,
and please know... YOU ARE STRONG ENOUGH TO DO IT!!
love***

i reckon its time for you two to take responsibility for this baby, 5 abortions in 5 years...thats not good.
if you dont think you can handle another abortion, dont do it! its your body, your boyfriend, like you said, has no idea first hand what its like to have a baby growing inside of you, who cares if its not the 'right time' for him. dont let him make decisions for you! its your life, your body, your choice. do what YOU want to do, but from hearing your story, i reckon its time to stand up and give this baby life, its not his/her fault that it was concieved, give it a chance and talk to your boyfriend about it, whatever you do, we will all be here behind you
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