Im 17 yrs old and last week i found out i was pregnant.. since then i have had realli bad pains in my stomache and feeling realli sick ... is there somthing rong or is that how i am meant 2 feel. im scared and i dont want enyfing to go rong and i havnt got a lot of ppl 2 talk 2 .. i have my friends bt only a few know and i havnt told my family as im scared of what they say .. && the dad of the child dont want nuffing to do with it so i was thinking that it may b stress or somthing bt i dnt want it harming my baby i dnt know wat to do ): XxX

Hi,
I'm sorry that you're in pain. It could mean a lot of things. It could be your uterus stretching as your baby grows inside, so that there's more room. But,it is best if you could get to a doctor and get examined, get on some prenatal vitamins and iron. It is very important not to keep this to yourself, or you could be having major complications and never know it until it is too late. I know that you feel alone and scared about what has happened, but there are a lot of resources for you if you need care. Call, 1-800-395-HELP. It is a confidential helpline for crisis pregnancies. They will put you in touch with someone in your area, and they can assist you in getting to a physician, state assistance for medical coverage, and even have someone go with you to talk to your parents. You need assistance!! At a young age, things from your perspective can be overwhelming if you don't have love and support. Call that number, and talk to the people on the line. Tell them your concerns and fears as well as the fact that you haven't told your parents. Don't be afraid to stand up for your baby, and hopefully your parents will see the love you have for him/her and will want to support you.

We are here to help if you need advice or loving support.

God bless,
myangelsinheaven

i am too pregnant. i am 6 weeks. i have been in pain since the week it was concieved. im having a lot of problems though... i had pains higher around my belly button & outward... and i had an infection... i am now having pains around my pelvis... in the crevis of my legs and my pelbis and right below my stomach and the doctor said these lower pains are normal... you need to talk to your family.. even if its only one adult you tell... because a doctor is really important... i got kicked out of my house, and im still making out just fine. family will always come around sometime... theres always safe havens for you to go to !! dont feel alone girl, it can be painful... dont forget you can ONLY take tylenol. i find that heat helps my stomach relax a little too... and about the guy... dont stress it, my babys father walked out too... and i know how bad you want him there, but he will one day reconsider, and even if hes not there for you, he will be there for the child one way or another... keep your head up, theres a lot of people who understand

That's recently been proven to be extremely positive in a baby's development. Mothers who have more discomfort with their pregnancy have babies who walk and talk earlier than average.
Example: my poor mother who was ill through out her pregnancy with me.

i am also pregnant 10 weeks i had a some pain got it checked out and it was all fine so i hope you and your baby will be fine how far along are you?

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Its best to be safe than sorry so if the pains in your lower stomach area get really bad go to the hospital to check if its not ectopic pregnancy, that can be really dangerous and life threathening.