ITA... babies don't really cost that much when they are little, except for diapers and formula (great reason to breastfeed!)
And if you find that money isn't flowing that heavily and you need to ask for help...then do it! There are many agencies that are around to help.
We never thought we could afford any of our children, but we have. God's way of providing doesn't always mean there is a check in your mailbox. But it can be a neighbor bringing over a box of wipes or a prepared meal.
Take a deep breath. It will all come together!